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Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Wedding Blog #1: Introduction

Hello out there, cyberspace!

It has been a very long time since I last blogged about anything. Nothing super-interesting has happened, so you haven't missed much.

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As you'd probably imagine, I've been involved in a lot of wedding planning talk lately. Elsa loves to read the blogs on weddingbee.com, where brides and brides-to-be share at least half of the intimate details of their wedding planning progress.

During a conversation with Elsa the other day, my lovely fiancée told me (less than half-seriously) that I should consider a career as a wedding planner. I've done the majority of the planning for our wedding thus far, and she thinks I've done an adequate job. Well, I don't know how many men plan weddings for a living, but she got me thinking: There are countless blogs and stories about wedding planning from a bride's point of view, but scarcely anything from their male counterparts.

Thus, I've decided to revive my once-dead blog and share tales and anecdotes from a unique perspective of the wedding planning process: The groom's-eye view. Hopefully, you will be able to glean some insights about the world of wedding planning, or at least be entertained by the ridiculousness of it all. From the engagement ring to the honeymoon, I will eventually blog about all of the work that I have put in to planning our wedding.

Be forewarned: If you're looking for spoilers, you won't find them here. I'm not going to spill the details of what we have planned, so forget about hoping that you'd learn what items will be on our reception menu, or what color my boxers will be on the day of our wedding. I'll only be sharing about the planning process, and only as far as we've planned.

With that said, welcome, one and all, to Planning My Fairy Tale Wedding: A Groom's Guide.

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COMING SOON
Wedding Blog #2: The Bright Shiny


Thursday, August 28, 2008

Slow News Day

I haven't had much to blog about the past few months. Nothing exciting has happened to me lately.

Oh, except for the fact that I got engaged.


Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Testing A Theory

For a while now, I've noticed that many people put various Bible references in their e-mails, chat profiles, Facebook and MySpace pages, and blogs. I've always wondered if people, when they come across one of these references, actually go and look up the verse or passage referenced. I hypothesized that the vast majority of people do not take the time to do so, assuming that it is something inspirational.
In order to test this theory, I added Bible verses to my Gmail chat and my Facebook status updates over the past several weeks, wondering if anyone would look them up, and perhaps comment on my use of these verses, which at first glance, are not nearly quite as "inspirational" as some of the other verses which people choose. Most of these verses are from books with which one might not be quite as familiar (i.e. Old Testament and Revelation), which should ideally prompt one to look it up.
Here are the verses I used, in chronological order:

Nahum 3:6 - I will throw filth on you and make you vile, and set you up as a spectacle.

2 Kings 9:24 - And Jehu drew his bow with his full strength and shot Joram between his arms; and the arrow went through his heart and he sank in his chariot.

Ezekiel 4:12 - You shall eat it as a barley cake, having baked it in their sight over human dung.

Ezra 6:11 - And I issued a decree that any man who violates this edict, a timber shall be drawn from his house and he shall be impaled on it and his house shall be made a refuse heap on account of this.

Numbers 5:27 - When he has made her drink the water, then it shall come about, if she has defiled herself and has been unfaithful to her husband, that the water which brings a curse will go into her and cause bitterness, and her abdomen will swell and her thigh will waste away, and the woman will become a curse among her people.

Revelation 17:16 - And the ten horns which you saw, and the beast, these will hate the harlot and will make her desolate and naked, and will eat her flesh and will burn her up with fire.

So far, my hypothesis seems to be correct. If I were a betting man, I would wager that had I continued this test, not a single person would have batted an eye or raised a question.

This saddens me. While I certainly grieve over the growth of biblical illiteracy, this is not the central reason for my sadness. I chose obscure verses on purpose, and I doubt even Bible professors would know them off the top of their heads. I grieve because to many Christians, the Bible has become cliché, and believers have become increasingly apathetic toward it. Any time we see one of these references, we are not excited or curious about what it might say; instead, we just think, "Oh, that's nice," and never give it a second thought.

Perhaps I am wrong. Perhaps there are some who did look up these verses. I hope so.


Thursday, March 13, 2008

Palm Sunday Schedule

6:00-7:00 am - Wake up (poo; shower; brush teeth; print songs) (breakfast optional)
7:00-7:35-45 - On the road to church (fill up gas tank optional)
7:35/45-7:55 - Finish making copies (provided our demon-possessed copier works)
8:00-8:30ish - Pre-practice optional prayer
8:30ish-8:45ish - Begin preparation for praise practice (sound mixer; speakers; guitar tuning)
8:45ish-9:30ish - Praise practice
9:30ish-10:15 - Prayer, Bible study; sharing (?)
10:15-10:30/45 - Children's Easter songs practice in sanctuary
10:30/45-10:50/55 - Prefreshment (?)
10:50/55-11:00 - Prayer with people involved in the worship service
11:00-12:15/30 pm - Worship service
12:15/30-12:45 - College/young adult Easter song practice in sanctuary
12:45-before 3:00 - Worship committee meeting (+ lunch)
3:00-?:?? - Baptism
Some time after ?:??-some time way after ?:?? - Homework and study

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And this is "part-time."
Imagine what my full-time student status (6 classes; 18 units) looks like.


Tuesday, February 26, 2008

No, You Can't Get to Heaven on Roller Skates

The more I read the Bible, the more I am convinced:

It is not enough to call oneself a Christian to be saved. In fact, many people who call themselves Christians will find themselves on the wrong side of eternity. There is only one thing for which life is worth living. The apostle Paul understood this.

Therefore, I will take a brief (and by no means comprehensive) look into Paul's life, drawn primarily from Philippians 3.

Everything was going right in Paul's life before he became a Christian. He was born into a wealthy Jewish family and Tarsus, and also inherited his father's Roman citizenship--essentially, a backstage pass into the Roman world that the vast majority of people did not receive. Furthermore, he was a Jew, an Israelite, a member of God's chosen people. Unfortunately, in those days, Jews regarded themselves as being superior over everyone else, because of their special covenant status with God. They forgot that they were supposed to be a nation of priests, living righteous lives so that all the nations would see their light and come to faith in Jehovah God.

However, Paul was not only a Jew; he was a Pharisee. He had studied under the widely-renown Rabban Gamaliel, who even today, is considered one of the greatest Jewish teachers of all-time (he is one of only a handful who received the prestigious title "Rabban"). If he were alive today, Paul would be one of the world's preeminent lawyers and scholars, his expertise in his field rivaling that of such intellectual heavyweights as Newton, Einstein, and Hawking in their respective fields. Unfortunately, if the Jews had problems with spiritual arrogance, the Pharisees, a popular sect of Judaism that prided itself on strictly following the Law of Moses (of which the Ten Commandments were foremost), had even worse problems. In Matthew 23, Jesus called them out for their spiritual pride and hypocrisy, and by no means did He take it easy on them.

Nevertheless, Paul called himself "blameless" when referring to the righteousness found in the Law. This does not mean that he thought of himself as perfect; there has been only one perfect Man, and Paul was not him. However, whenever Paul sinned and broke the Law, he would exercise the provisions that the Law made for such a breaking, offering sacrifices in the Temple in order to atone for his sins. That is why Paul could call himself blameless before the Law.

Paul's credentials do not stop there. He was a passionate Pharisee, even going so far in his zeal for preserving Judaism that he persecuted Christ's church, torturing and killing many Christians, both men and women. I once heard a sermon by N. T. Wright about Paul's persecution of the church, and his subsequent conversion to Christ, where Wright paralleled the early church to World War II Jews, and Paul to Adolf Hitler. I have seen short clips of Hitler giving speeches, and he was one of the most fired-up and passionate (and evil) people I have ever seen. I imagine that Paul was similar to that; I do not know if he was as loud or vehement in his hatred, but in his heart, he surely felt it for the church just as strongly as Hitler did for the Jews.

However, when Paul encountered Jesus on that hot, dusty road to Damascus, he was changed. I happen to think that the seeds of conversion had been planted in the soil of Paul's heart earlier, when he witnessed Stephen's arrest, defense, and execution, and that those seeds sprouted when Jesus invaded his hate-filled world, dispelling the darkness with His marvelous Light.

(Sidenote: Could you imagine what happened when Paul walked into his first church service not long after his conversion? It would have been like Hitler donning a yarmulke and going to synagogue, or Osama bin Laden being baptized and receiving communion. Paul's conversion--now that's the power of the good news of Jesus Christ.)

In Philippians 3:4a-6, Paul lists off these amazing credentials. If there was anyone who could be proud of his accomplishments, it would have been him. However, in 3:7-8, Paul has a stunning reversal:

7 "But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ. 8 More than that, I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ,"

Many of you have probably heard that in Greek, "rubbish" refers to garbage. Well, imagine, if you will, the foulest-smelling garbage you have ever smelled in your life. When I was younger, I went with my father to the dump once or twice in order to get rid of some items that were too big for our trash can. I cannot begin to describe the olfactory assault that was carried out on my delicate nose. Also, I once found the rotting carcass of an opossum in our backyard. Finally, there was the mostly-eaten yogurt cup that had been left in my mother's car, where it sat, baking in the summer sun, for at least two or three days. We thought an animal had died in there.

To Paul, that was what all of his life's accomplishments were worth to him: a rotting opossum carcass, bloated and black in the oppressive summer heat. The only thing that mattered to him was "knowing Christ Jesus [his] Lord" (v. 8). Knowing Jesus personally and intimately was worth so much to him ("surpassing value") that everything else smelled like death and decay. Nothing else counted. Nothing else mattered.

Paul got it. And since then, nothing has changed.

Knowing Jesus is the only thing that ultimately matters in life. He must be our all-consuming passion. He must be our definition of reality. All our accomplishments, all our accolades belong in a toxic dump, where they will marinate in their vile liquids, giving off noxious fumes--and they will go there, regardless of whether or not we know Jesus. At the end of the day, at the end of all days, we will either have Jesus, or we will have nothing. It is as simple as that.

Let us get to know Jesus.


I am convinced that these are the saddest words in the Bible:

"And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness.'"
(Matthew 7:23, emphasis mine)


You'll roll right past those pearly gates



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